Our Grounding Virtues

The Listening Space Project started with a seed of an idea, asking the question: What if we do doctoring a bit differently? What if we work together with our patients and our local community to create a healthy outdoor space? A place where we can listen to and learn from each other, a place to gather, to celebrate and a place to rest.  It was a response to the cut and thrust of modern life  which has a tendency to reduce anything which can be separated, measured or assigned a numerical or financial value stripping life of its dynamism and spirit. There was a sense we wanted to put ourselves together again as individuals and as a community. 

…and so we planted the seed in the soil of our community, and that’s how our garden grew and with it grew our relationships and further opportunities. 

We liked and followed the principles of the Transition Network whose strapline reminds us “if we wait for governments, it’ll be too late, if we act as individuals, it’ll be too little, but if we act as communities, it might be just enough, just in time”.  

We share the vision and aspirations of the Patient Revolution: one where careful and kind care is there for all

We also aspire to follow the grounding virtues of the On Being Civil Conversations Project recognising that engaging others in a deeper way begins with inner work, grounding virtues before ground rules. We encourage all who work with us to stand on the same ground. What we practice, we become….

words that matter- hospitality- humility -patience -generous listening -adventurous civility- forgiveness

And so we started our journey towards an imagined village hall in the centre of our practice community using our heads, hearts and hands. 

All practices and communities are different so we can’t tell you how exactly to organise yours but this is an outline of our recipe.

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Our starter recipe

Working towards breaking the ground: the first big dig day

Ingredients: 

A handful of hopeful humans

A dose of imagination fuelled by visits to other projects for inspiration, ideas and sharing of experience

An underused outdoor space

A bit of crowdfunding

A shout out for volunteers- working in exchange for food and a chance to gather and contribute

A few folk who like to cook 

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Method: 

Gather the hopeful humans and share the vision- we were led by our local transition group who had experience in mobilising groups and getting things done. 

Divide volunteers into working groups- there’s a place for everyone- we asked people to join in ‘friends and family style’ with the only requirements being that they came with the wish to contribute positively.  

Break regularly for tea and snacks- we believe in the power of coming together over the kitchen table. 

Allow ideas and conversation to flow- the best ideas come when we conjure them together.

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Tips and Guidance:

Plan small steps and celebrate regularly on the way. 

Always fuel work together with good food and lots of tea. 

Be hospitable, encourage positive and civil conversation, generous listening, fun and laughter. 

Work with the resources you have, talk to your patient participation group, draw up a wish list and ask for what you need.  

Hold your plans and your destination lightly- sometimes other paths open up that you never could have expected.

Things will go wrong. We are human and humans are messy. Learn to fail forwards, lean into difficulty, walk the bumpy ground….and always be prepared to forgive and be forgiven.